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Moving On from the Big C. Love, Amy: March 10, 2023: Five Weeks of Healing Done.

 

Week 5 of healing and I am so grateful to everyone for their support!
Thank you so much for the dinners, phone calls, and emails, and even a surprise visit from out-of-town.  Friends, you all have been the best!

With all of  the doctors appointments and keeping the kids going to all of their outside-classes (both curricular and extra curricular), these past few weeks have been a marathon of driving!  Thanks for feeding us.  It meant that there was one less chore for Erik to get done, in terms of driving, getting groceries and cooking.  Thank you for taking care of us!

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It's been 8 days since the doctor gave me permission to sleep in a position other than on my back.  And I'm finally making a meaningful reduction in my sleep deficit!  Some other things that have opened up for me, in the last 8 days: I got take my first shower since my surgeries (AND WASH MY HAIR!!!).  I'm getting to raise my arms above shoulder height.  (I've lost some mobility since the surgery, so I'll have to work to get range of motion back.)  Though I still have weight restrictions on how much I'm allowed to lift, I can get out of bed using my arms now.   I am able and awake enough to drive again.  Sweet, sweet sleep!  I'm so glad to have it back in my life.

I still have to have my bandages changed daily and wound care done twice-per day, but the family has been great in all helping out with my care.  Erik has involved all of the girls in helping with wound care and so I'm really well taken care of, plus they are all becoming incredibly competent in wound care.
 
I'm getting around town more and looking forward to a changing of the season.

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Totally surprised me... 
(in the best way) 
with a visit from out of town!

Some pretty allergy-free cupcakes piccies...
Thanks to LW for the fun cupcake decorating kit!





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